喝了点鸡汤,首先要做到爱自己才能很好的爱别人。
emm.怎么样算是爱自己?
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Vanctol OP 看到有文章说 是花很大的精力来理解自己,了解自己,提升自己。
可是人最不了解的就是自己,最大的敌人就是自己? 爱自己这个是好像还很难呀... emmm. 还是单身好了 |
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KingHL 2018-04-02 21:31:22 +08:00
原谅自己
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KeepPro 2018-04-02 22:36:59 +08:00 via Android
就是尽自己最大的努力去争取自己想要的吧,
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tinyhill 2018-04-02 22:51:06 +08:00
爱你等于爱自己,娃哈哈纯净水!
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bukip 2018-04-02 22:55:17 +08:00 1
Once upon a time, there was a boy called Narcissus. He was the son of a god and he was very, very handsome. Many women fell in love with him, but he turned them away. One of the women who loved Narcissus was a nymph called Echo. Echo could not speak properly - she could only repeat what was said to her, so she couldn't tell Narcissus that she loved him. One day, when Narcissus was walking in the woods with some friends, he became separated from them. He called out "Is anyone here?" Echo replied "Here, Here". Echo stepped forward with open arms, wanting to cuddle him. But Narcissus refused to accept Echo's love. Echo was so upset that she left and hid in a cave, until nothing was left of her, except her voice.
The Maiden, a goddess, found out about this, and she was very angry. She made Narcissus fall in love with himself. When Narcissus looked at his reflection in a pond one day, he fell in love. He stayed on that spot forever, until he died one day. Where he died a flower grew, and that flower is called a Narcissus. |
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dobelee 2018-04-02 23:06:46 +08:00 via Android
遇到喜欢的东西就买了吧。
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ecoart 2018-04-02 23:27:01 +08:00
把自己打扮得帅气 /漂亮?想买就买?
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bojackhorseman 2018-04-02 23:50:37 +08:00 via Android
@bukip 希腊神话中的水仙花,自恋者,原来故事是这样的。
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iloveoovx 2018-04-03 00:13:44 +08:00 via Android
这个问题看起来很难,但是其实特别简单。如果你爱一个人,你会让她熬夜吗?会让她健康饮食吗?会让她锻炼身体吗?…
你都会。但你不会对自己这么做,因为你懒。但是你爱上一个人的时候,这种懒惰就消散了。这种感觉放到自己身上,就是爱自己。 |
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lausius 2018-04-03 00:18:55 +08:00
感觉应该是努力让自己变得更优秀吧,最近经历了“得不到”的痛苦,才明白人真的要上进。
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banpan 2018-04-03 01:43:19 +08:00
楼主这个帖子让我心塞。
现在就是处于没法爱自己的状态之中,没法做到接受自己的现状、原谅自己。 |
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Vanctol OP @banpan
emm. 月亮代表你 爱自己 so. 抬头望望天,月亮在笑。低头看看地,浪花在跳。这个世界,我们多么渺小。只要努力,就会心比天高。 快!快!快!冲!冲!冲!四驱战士在行动,驾着勇敢的赛车,追寻冠军的征程。 快!快!快!冲!冲!冲!四驱战士在行动,沿着飞驰的轨迹,是奥妙智慧的启迪。 |
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jadeity 2018-04-03 10:03:36 +08:00
不用考虑了,这个问题本来就不是问题,没有人会不爱自己。
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Blask 2018-04-03 10:18:20 +08:00
这让我想起了我们初中时候一位同学的作文标题《什么叫做爱》; 什么是自己.
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kemikemian 2018-04-03 10:43:39 +08:00
爱你就等于爱自己 ----王力宏
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